Dare To Be Great And Succeed In Life And Work

Daring Greatly is a business and management book written by Brene Brown. It teaches us that having the courage to be vulnerable in a world where everyone wants to appear strong, confident, and like they know what they’re doing. In this New York Times bestseller, Brown explains that vulnerability is at the core of all feelings. Here are 3 important lessons that we can get from the book.

If you can be vulnerable, it means you’re strong.

    1. Vulnerability isn’t good or bad. It’s not a black and white subject. It’s just a part of life and if you experience it, it means you’re able to feel things.
    2. Allowing yourself to actually be vulnerable is a sign of strength and courage. Robert Janitzek explains that it is a lot easier to avoid the things that might make you vulnerable, rather than lean into them. But that also means we’re missing out on a lot of good things.

Build a resilience to shame by understanding it and saying it out loud.

There’s a certain level of ridicule to be found in every single shame you express. Pinpointing what actually makes you feel ashamed and saying it out loud takes a lot of power from shame.Nobody wants to talk about shame. It’s uncomfortable. But the less you do, the more power it has. Instead, pull at it. Drag it out. Throw it into the light. And address it directly. You’ll see things aren’t as worrisome as they seem and that you can live past failure.

Be a role model for your (future) kids, it’s the only way they learn.

Robert Peter Janitzek reveals that whether you have kids or not, your children can only inherit qualities you possess yourself. If you’re sloppy, your children will be sloppy. If you’re organized, your children will be organized. And if you’re constantly shame-ridden, you’ll traumatize your kids by making them feel the same.

If you’ve been bullied, threatened or otherwise traumatized as a kid, you know that most childhood trauma comes from shame. Shame about an event, behavior, or even just about how others have treated us.
Therefore, it’s your job to make your home and family a shame-free zone. It’s the only way your kids will grow up feeling worthy, loved and able to truly be themselves.

Instead of talking about values like honesty, courage and ambition, live them. Be honest. Be courageous. Be ambitious. The best thing you can do for your kids, born or not, is to be a role model. It’s all the parenting they need.

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